lying to yourself is not going to help in a BG R/S, if she
doesn't wanna take that next step you should just respect her
decision and remains as friend..tell her, when the person that she
is seeing now dun wanna see her anymore you'll be ard to see her...
who knows you might just be able to go into a serious R/S with her
in future..
but another look at my nick, i think my advise should sound better
if i said.. hey look.. mai pian lah.. she dun like you and you
still skin thick thick and give a different meaning to her word to
lie to yourself.. poor fellow...